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A better, more positive Tumblr

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Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.

Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).  

Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.

So what is changing?

Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.

Why are we doing this?

It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.

So what’s next?

Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.

Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.

Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.

Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.

Jeff D’Onofrio
CEO

shashaboo

But my bf & I use some of the adult content that we like to indirectly communicate with each other when we can’t be together & we use it to cope with our long distance relationship 😭. Tumblr or Mr. Jeff guy please reconsider!! 😭 😭  

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Taking Care of your Emotional Health

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If you want to boost your emotional health then build the following into your life:

1. Develop a good group of friends. If possible, try and have quite a wide group of friends. That then means if someone moves away, or you change your school, your hobbies and so on, you’ll still a healthy support system in place.

2. Learn to appreciate solitude. Isolation isn’t the same as solitude. Isolation is being cut off from others for negative reasons; solitude is enjoying space and time for yourself – so you can recharge your batteries, and enjoy just being “you”.

3. Invest time in get fit. People who are fit and healthy generally feel better about themselves. Also, exercise releases feel good hormones so we feel happier, more optimistic and relaxed.

4. Allow yourself to “goof off” and have a laugh – as too much work will drain your energy.

5. Discover your passion and invest time in that. We all have something that brings us alive, and seems to resonate with who we are inside … So investing in your passion is extremely satisfying!

6. Plan for difficulties and problems. We all encounter problems and hard times in this life. Expecting that to happen helps us feel more in control - as we understand it’s normal - so we don’t just fall apart.

7. Work on increasing your self-awareness. As above, we all have blind spots and idiosyncrasies. If we can learn about ourselves, and our natural tendencies, we can learn to master weaknesses, and work to change and grow.

8. Be willing to take risks. Though it’s hard to step out into unknown territory, you’ll find it’s more rewarding to stretch yourself and grow.

9. Watch out for energy vampires. There are plenty of people who will drain your energy so learn how to say “no”, and to set some boundaries.

10. Ask for help when you need it. We all need support and encouragement at times … And offer help to others when things are tough for them.

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they reaction when she said she kill all of them! 😂😂😂

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I’m the guy behind the guy on the phone 😂😂

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The plea for help 💀😂😂

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Anonymous asked:

hey do you have any tips for a long distance relationship? hope you have a nice day!

jonaswpoetry answered:

I suppose firstly prepare for a lot of ache, because it’s horrible being far away from someone you love, and even more so when you’ve been together and have to separate.

Communicate regularly, but also remember that you’re both allowed your own time to yourselves. Even the person most precious and important to you is their own person, and has their own life to live. You, also, have things to do and a life to live.

Make time for each other as a couple even if you’re still apart. When there might be a long period where you can’t talk/see each other properly try to figure out what can be done to make it not so bad - it might be sacrificing a lie-in or early bed time to Skype, for example. Demonstrate your commitment and their value.

Any time an argument comes up, remember that sometimes it’s not about you winning, or your partner winning, but your relationship lasting. Learn compromise, but also teach it and push it. Realise that sometimes the things that matter to you just shouldn’t. Drop it, and move on. Humans get bothered by the most ridiculous things. It doesn’t mean they’re actually important.

Learn to communicate clearly, particularly in text. It’s far too easy to misunderstand what you read, especially in emotionally tense situations; I find it very difficult to not push a negative tone on Natalie’s messages that was never intended. It’s tricky, but punctuation and even emoticons can help clarify what you mean.

Relationships are hard. Long distance is really hard. If it’s seeming too difficult, talk to your partner about it. Be honest. They might give you a new perspective, or help you both work out how to make it more manageable. Or it might be confirmed that it’s not meant to be, which is ok. Not every relationship works out, and you might be better moving on. But that’s for you to figure out. Be honest with yourself, too.

I wish you a wonderful day, and the best of luck.

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him

there’s someone,

a special someone.

someone who’s very name

can comfort my mind.

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someone who’s words

are so careful

yet so beautiful

and all i ever want to hear.

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someone who’s touch

can calm the anxious

and false notions

that attempt to control me.

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someone who’s voice

can sooth every part

of my soul

as i rest in his arms.

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there’s someone who

was so carefully picked

by our Creator for me

and i found him.

- e.b. 07/09/18